A friend on LJ posed a rant on being un-friended. Seemed pissed; I think I would be too. It got me thinking of the people I have on my friends list. I discovered that I was not on the list of a friend of mine. I'm not sure what to think. Then again I don't post much and most of the time that I do it is not very profound. But I still feel out of step a little. I have grown old enough to realize that friendships grow and change and that friends for LIFE are rare! So I can accept that the terms of the friendship have changed. And that's okay.
I joined a fraternity of people who I thought would be of a like enough mind that certain aspects of my life could flourish and be shared with others. I have made many friends and many people who I have accepted to tolerate. That's the way of it when you increase your extended family by such a large margin. I have now come to the point of facing those who I held most dear and accepting that there is little or nothing left of what brought our like minds together. Now it is different. We are different. I was angry and frustrated at this fracture. Now I am resigned and disappointed. I thought we were for the same cause. Alas. I will not pass a judgment to say who is right or wrong. That isn't relevant. I think, now we have come to see the world in very different ways. We are of two different worlds now. My dear friend we shall no longer feast at the same table. And I am sorry for it. But God speed to you good man. I shall remember well our drinks together; for the wine of friendship is ever sweet. I shall speak well of the good times so that the feast of your life not turn to dust in the mouthes of those who celebrate it. Be your table ever groaning with the weight of your bounty. We have marched side by side, we have clashed our steel against one another and though now, my King, we must live in separate kingdoms we shall ever remain Brothers, Friends and Countrymen. I have said my piece. I will never again sojourn to your country border, but know that my gate is always open, my hall warm in welcome, my table set to receive you. Should you enter here to strike me down I will not stop you. My blood will flow to the Cup and when you next taste joy and ecstasy I will be there to poison the well, and you will remember what love was.